Last week I was reminiscing with a friend from high school about a crush I had as a freshman on an upperclassman on the swim team. Maybe we talked a few times, but when he let me down gently, I sobbed, then immediately went to Tower Records, and bought him a 45 record of All Cried Out by Lisa Lisa and the Cult Jam (this is totally worth watching btw-it's SO GOOD!). I can remember every detail about 14-year-old me handing him the record and running away in the pool parking lo